The wedding list is often a source of awkwardness both
for guests and the couple alike. Couples often feel awkward
in being up front about what they need and that they
actually have a list. Lists seem to take out the surprise
element that is so appealing about gift giving. However, if
the couple can convey clearly and politely that every gift
is really needed and will therefore be appreciated, in a way
problem solved all round. You simply choose something you
feel is in your budget range and take comfort in knowing
that your contribution - small or big - will make your
couple very happy. List announcements may come via the
invitation or email.Gifts with a personal touch
You may decide that despite a list you would prefer to
buy something with a more personal touch, particularly if
you are well acquainted with the couple. Couples when
compiling lists may over look items that maybe deemed
indulgent and err on the side of practical items like
upgrading pans to a luxury range or choosing an electrical
item they particularly wanted.
A special, personal gift could be an
ideal choice. Below are some great gift ideas.
Honeymoon gifts:
Choosing a piece of beautiful lingerie that the bride can
slip into on her honeymoon is probably best left to the
groom. However you could give extra items connected to the
honeymoon destination like maps and guides or a travel log
for them to record memories. Providing them with a set of
perfumed candles to help to create some romantic moments
would also be a nice touch.
Sentimental gifts:
There is something very evocative about reminiscing about
the past. Marriage is like a rite of passage from being
single to maybe living together to committing to sharing
your life with another person. Putting together an album of
photos and keepsakes from their life before they married
preserves that part of their life and can bring back great
feelings when they sit and reminisce. An album of images
taken from their days of going out together, their
engagement or the events leading up to the marriage is a
very personal gift to give and guaranteed to bring a lot of
pleasure.
Relaxing gifts:
It goes without saying that organising your wedding is a
particularly stressful process. Therefore what better gift
can you give than maybe a gift basket of goodies like
aromatherapy candles,
bubble bath and lotions for the couple to pamper themselves
with in the comfort of their own home.
Luxury personal gifts:
In keeping with the theme of encouraging your couple to
feel a special and pampered, why not consider upgrading any
bed linen items on the their wedding list. Instead of just
buying a duvet if requested, why not consider a luxury,
natural duvet. Giving a
gift of sumptuous, Egyptian
cotton sheets shows you’ve given some special attention
to a request for bedding and some! Luxury bed linen can add
a special something to a private space like a bedroom.
Even if not requested adding luxury and comfort to their
wedding gift collection means you have put some thought into
making your gift unique and personal. A beautiful,
silk blanket is probably an
extravagance a couple may not consider for themselves.
Luxury towelling like bath
towels and bath robes not only
adds a touch of luxury but ensures good quality.
Choosing a special gift for a wedding couple requires
some thought but doesn’t have to necessarily be
time-consuming. The internet provides a convenient way to
shop even for those personal and unique items you might wish
to give as your gift.
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